As you read this I'm in Disney World.
Jealous, right?
I have been to Disney more times than taking my age and cutting it in half. I have stayed at more Disney Resorts than the average person even knows exists. Disney is like my 2nd home. So, it's only fitting that I've fantasized about a Disney wedding. If and when I finally say "I do" I'm not sure it will be in Disney, but a girl can dream.
For some swoon worthy photos of some lucky gals that did get hitched in WDW, check out this blog.
Have a great week! M.I.C...See you real soon!

The Bride's Butler is a Wedding Coordination company located in Hamilton, Ontario. All services are executed by a certified coordinator, and can be tailored to meet your needs and budget. I'm Diane Morris, the founder & owner of The Bride's Butler. Thanks for stopping by the blog for tips, advice, ideas and real weddings. Enjoy!
Sunday, November 25, 2012
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Morgan & Adam Part II
Time to soak in all the loveliness that was Morgan & Adam's wedding....
Beautiful, right?
Big thanks and much love to Beth from Elizabeth in Love for capturing such beauty.
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Thursday, November 15, 2012
Morgan & Adam Part I
In August I had the pleasure of working with Elizabeth from Elizabeth in Love. I had heard about this awesome and lovely gal many times through the wedding grape wine, and then had the pleasure of meeting her at a friends wedding in June. At that wedding we were able to chat briefly about how excited we were to be working together for Morgan & Adam's big day.
Morgan & Adam got married in the beginning of August on a nice, warm (okay, kind of hot) summer day at one of my favourite venues in the Hamilton Area - the Tamahaac Club. Their theme was vintage romance, and they planned their big day with such detail. Morgan knew exactly how she wanted the venue to look, and it turned out beautifully.
Using baby's breath (the Groom's favourite), roses and hydrangeas, the tables welcomed guests for a dinner that was simply mouth watering. The bridesmaids wore white, and the groomsmen grey. The Bride & Groom had a first look photo session prior to uniting in a Jewish ceremony.
Here are some photos that display just how beautiful their wedding was.
Morgan & Adam got married in the beginning of August on a nice, warm (okay, kind of hot) summer day at one of my favourite venues in the Hamilton Area - the Tamahaac Club. Their theme was vintage romance, and they planned their big day with such detail. Morgan knew exactly how she wanted the venue to look, and it turned out beautifully.
Using baby's breath (the Groom's favourite), roses and hydrangeas, the tables welcomed guests for a dinner that was simply mouth watering. The bridesmaids wore white, and the groomsmen grey. The Bride & Groom had a first look photo session prior to uniting in a Jewish ceremony.
Here are some photos that display just how beautiful their wedding was.
It was so nice to have worked with Beth, and I hope that we'll be able to work together in the near future to capture and execute more weddings that are beautiful.
Next blog post will feature Part II: the details.
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Me like Cookies
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Cookies were served as a late night sweet treat in June 2012 |
It looks like Cookie Monster is helping set a trend for the 2013 wedding season. Cookies are set to be cropping up at weddings next year for favours and desserts.
Entering the wedding circuit in 2011, cookies made an impact, but weren't as popular as cupcakes, cake pops, candy buffets and even pies. But if you or your hubs-to-be is a cookie monster, then you'll be happy to know the cookie is here for 2013!
Sugar cookies can be decorated any way you like, and can also be packaged in a variety of different sizes and shapes - making for a unique and personalized favour or treat.
Two of my clients last year had cookies for their guest takeaway. Giving an edible favour is a great idea because everyone always likes something to eat. Most times the edible favours will be eaten or taken home so you know you've spend your money well, unlike some of the other offerings like candles, soap or picture frames.
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Angie & Serge had Cupcake Diner make them themed cookies for their May wedding. |
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Natalie & Jason gave a simple sugar cookie for their June 2012 wedding. |
If you want to have cookies at your wedding, just remember that you don't have to go with the decorated sugar cookie. You can pick your favourite from your childhood, or choose one because you like the name (i.e: snickerdoodle) or ask a Grandma or Aunt to bake their signature cookie for you.
There are so many options! Also, think outside the box on how to serve your cookie(s) if you're not having them as a favour, but as a sweet treat. Will you serve it with milk? Hot chocolate?
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Photo from Postcards & Pretties |
What do you think about this 2013 wedding trend? Do you like cookies?
Monday, November 5, 2012
Don't miss out!
Did you know that planning and hosting a wedding is the 2nd most stressful life event? Ranking right up there with the loss of a loved one is what's supposed to be the happiest day of your life. Doesn't make much sense, does it?
We're offering 30% off Day of Coordination services for 2013 weddings booked before November 30th, 2012. Having a dedicated Coordinator on site for your wedding will help reduce the amount of stress you and your hubby to be might be feeling.
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Finishing off the evening with a photo with newlyweds Brooke & Richard. |
- A complimentary coffee & chat to discuss your wedding day requirements
- An hour long meeting to finalize all details, logistics and plans for your wedding
- Continuous support via phone or email 2 months prior to your big day
- Timeline preparation & execution
- Rehearsal coordination
- Wedding party & family management
- Vendor coordination
- Use of our wedding day emergency kit
- Wedding Day Management (set-up, ceremony coordination, photos & reception)
Other than your DJ & Photographer, no other vendor will spend that many hours with you on your wedding day. We are there the whole day to ensure that all of your hard work planning pays off.
Don't miss out! Call or email us today to set up a date for the complimentary chat!
* Photo by Unveil Photography
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Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Damn Girl...
...you picked an ugly dress.
Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel are married.
You might remember my post here, where I may have cried me a river.
Jessica's dress was, well, er...not all that flattering. And I'm not just saying this because she is now Mrs. Timberlake. I did not expect her to wear such a pink pouf.
As JT sings in his song Damn Girl..."You're so fine make a brother blush"....I'd have to say that yes, he likely did blush...with embarrassment.
Jessica is a very pretty woman. In fact, she's stunning. Adding colour to wedding dresses has become more acceptable and fashionable in the past few years, but to have an outright pink dress made me shutter slightly. What do you think?
I thought the new JT would have worn something white made of silk or satin, low cut with an embellished brooch or belt. For a few months prior to their wedding Jessica was photographed at almost every event wearing white - thus making people wonder if she was practicing for her big day, or trying to throw off the paparazzi.
They got married in Italy, and has had one of the most expensive celeb weddings to date. A whopping 6.5 million....which you think would buy a very pretty dress.
Alright, I'm done ranting about it.
Here is the dress if you haven't already seen it.
Thought she would have done better in any one of these. Oh well, they're very happy and in love - so that's all that matters. Right?

You might remember my post here, where I may have cried me a river.
Jessica's dress was, well, er...not all that flattering. And I'm not just saying this because she is now Mrs. Timberlake. I did not expect her to wear such a pink pouf.
As JT sings in his song Damn Girl..."You're so fine make a brother blush"....I'd have to say that yes, he likely did blush...with embarrassment.
Jessica is a very pretty woman. In fact, she's stunning. Adding colour to wedding dresses has become more acceptable and fashionable in the past few years, but to have an outright pink dress made me shutter slightly. What do you think?
I thought the new JT would have worn something white made of silk or satin, low cut with an embellished brooch or belt. For a few months prior to their wedding Jessica was photographed at almost every event wearing white - thus making people wonder if she was practicing for her big day, or trying to throw off the paparazzi.
They got married in Italy, and has had one of the most expensive celeb weddings to date. A whopping 6.5 million....which you think would buy a very pretty dress.
Alright, I'm done ranting about it.
Here is the dress if you haven't already seen it.
Thought she would have done better in any one of these. Oh well, they're very happy and in love - so that's all that matters. Right?
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Thursday, October 25, 2012
A little bit of country...
I'm a country girl. The sounds of Tim McGraw, Dixie Chicks and Luke Bryan make me happy. The idea of riding a horse on a
fall day gives me combined sense of adventure and calm. The sight of a guy
wearing a cowboy hat and worn in jeans brings a smile to my face. These things
are country to me – so when I think of the perfect country wedding, I like of rustic
elements like burlap, hay, vintage rentals, mason jars, the colours brown and champagne, barns, corn fields, autumn and guitars.
Whatever your style is, be sure to implement it into your
special day. Maybe you’re a little country, or maybe you’re a little rock &
roll. Either way, plan your details for your wedding around your
style, personality, budget and interests/hobbies.
Here are some ways that I would incorporate a little bit of country
into a wedding:
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Photo by Katie Stoops Photography |
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Brooke & Richard's Wedding. Photo by Unveil Photography |
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Photo found on Cedarwood Southern Chic Designers |
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Photo found on All Women Stalk |
For more rustic or country inspiration check out Pinterest, Rustic Wedding Chic and The Wedding Chicks.
Saturday, October 20, 2012
Congratulations Brooke & Richard!
After assisting Brooke & Richard in planning their wedding in just a week shy of a year, it was so awesome to have seen it all come together fabulously on the 29th of September. Tying the knot on a beautiful fall day, these two love birds were surrounded by family and friends and had a fabulous party!
Here are some photos from Brooke & Richard's wedding day....
Photography: Unveil Photography
Venue: Paris Grand Golf & Country
Flowers: Designs by Law
Cake/Cupcakes: This Chick Makes Cakes
Full Planning & Styling: The Bride's Butler
Officiant: Kettle Creek Weddings
DJ: Pynx Productions
Photo Booth: Golden Horseshoe Photo Booth
Make-Up & Hair: Gibson Glamour
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Monday, October 15, 2012
Paying for an intangible service
Okay, I've got to give a little talk here - no soap box, no mega phone - just me hoping to shed light on my perspective, why we charge what we do for our services and how Day of Coordination isn't a tangible service, but is well worth placing it in your list of vendors to hire for your wedding day.
When potential clients contact me, it’s typically because they've:
a) been referred from pleased past clients
b) heard good things about me through the grapevine
or
c) searched online and found that I come up on top for "Hamilton Wedding Planner (or Coordinator)"
Once I get an inquiry, I get back to them with details about Day of Coordination, the length of time required to execute the services and the fee. Brides that know the value in having a certified professional on site to execute their details will reply back fairly promptly and take up my offer to meet to see if we’re a good fit. Most of my Brides are organized, detail oriented and your typical Type A personalities – and I love them for it! They know what they want, and they know how to get it – by hiring a Coordinator to do all of the tasks they can’t on their wedding day. But then there are the Brides that want to have a Coordinator, but don't want to pay for our quality services. This bothers me.
Day of Coordination services are typically 35-40 hours of service, with 12, sometimes 14 of those hours being executed on your wedding day. Other than your DJ and Photographer, who else works for you that long on your wedding day? Brides will pay more for their flowers and cake than they will for our services – so this is where my tangible and intangible piece comes into play.
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On location during the photo shoot for newlyweds Brooke & Richard. |
Day of Coordination services are typically 35-40 hours of service, with 12, sometimes 14 of those hours being executed on your wedding day. Other than your DJ and Photographer, who else works for you that long on your wedding day? Brides will pay more for their flowers and cake than they will for our services – so this is where my tangible and intangible piece comes into play.
You'll pay big bucks for a DJ, and for your investment you will hear the tunes pumpin’ all night.
You’ll pay more than enough for your cake, which will be dropped off, displayed and likely not eaten.
You’ll pay hundreds, sometimes thousands for your flowers, which yes, are beautiful - but at the end of the night end up thrown out, or given to guests during the famous centrepiece giveaway.
So, when I inform Brides about my fee and they want to negotiate or flat out say I'm too expensive, I think this (and maybe I should start saying this too)....
Our services are not tangible like those mentioned above. You can't touch, eat or smell what we do – but we're there working for you the whole time. We’re the ones that keep you calm and organized, and keep your wedding party and guests on time for key events. We’re the ones that pick up garbage from photo shoot locations, and make sure the washrooms are always clean and stocked. We fix your hair, veil and dress. We set-up your details, and take them down. We coordinate timing and services with all of your vendors, and make sure they're providing the services you're paying for. We coordinate your rehearsal, ceremony, photo shoot and reception. We communicate with your DJ and MC to make sure the speeches occur on time and in order. We work together with the catering staff to ensure dinner is served promptly and correctly. We wear many hats during the execution of the services, and we are always working. We trouble shoot, solve issues and above all, do all that we can to give you a memorable event.
So, do you see the value in having a Day of Coordinator? Check out our Applause page for what some of our past clients have to say. An experienced Day of Coordinator is worth the cost, and worth adding to your list of vendors to make your day magical.
I guess in the end, you can consider our tangible item to be the amount of stress we take away from you and your future hubby. Now, I think that's better than any song, slice of cake or flower.
* Image taken by Unveil Photography
You’ll pay more than enough for your cake, which will be dropped off, displayed and likely not eaten.
You’ll pay hundreds, sometimes thousands for your flowers, which yes, are beautiful - but at the end of the night end up thrown out, or given to guests during the famous centrepiece giveaway.
So, when I inform Brides about my fee and they want to negotiate or flat out say I'm too expensive, I think this (and maybe I should start saying this too)....
Our services are not tangible like those mentioned above. You can't touch, eat or smell what we do – but we're there working for you the whole time. We’re the ones that keep you calm and organized, and keep your wedding party and guests on time for key events. We’re the ones that pick up garbage from photo shoot locations, and make sure the washrooms are always clean and stocked. We fix your hair, veil and dress. We set-up your details, and take them down. We coordinate timing and services with all of your vendors, and make sure they're providing the services you're paying for. We coordinate your rehearsal, ceremony, photo shoot and reception. We communicate with your DJ and MC to make sure the speeches occur on time and in order. We work together with the catering staff to ensure dinner is served promptly and correctly. We wear many hats during the execution of the services, and we are always working. We trouble shoot, solve issues and above all, do all that we can to give you a memorable event.
So, do you see the value in having a Day of Coordinator? Check out our Applause page for what some of our past clients have to say. An experienced Day of Coordinator is worth the cost, and worth adding to your list of vendors to make your day magical.
I guess in the end, you can consider our tangible item to be the amount of stress we take away from you and your future hubby. Now, I think that's better than any song, slice of cake or flower.
* Image taken by Unveil Photography
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Sarah Danielle Photography
A while ago I connected with Sarah on Twitter and we went out for drinks to chat weddings, work and photography. I told her that I was in need of some new head shots for use on social media and my website and she agreed to spend some time with me...and that's just what we did this past weekend.
The fall leaves were our backdrop, and the sunlight light up our outdoor studio. The wind was a bit much at times, but we managed to have a good time and capture some great shots!
Here are a few of my favs from the shoot.
Friday, October 5, 2012
From Bridesmaid to Bride
When I met Erin in November 2011, she was a Bridesmaid for her sister Leigh's wedding.
Now, she's engaged to her longtime boyfriend Jeff and will see me again in September 2013 when she is a Bride!
We often get referrals from past Brides and Grooms, and typically it's their friends or co-workers - so this is the first time that we're going to be executing another wedding for the same family! It will be such a pleasure to see Leigh as a Bridesmaid, and now Erin as the Bride! I'm so excited to be able to work with these two gals again, and to help Erin & Jeff keep calm on their very special day.
Stay tuned next year for a teaser post about their wedding and then for a re-cap after they've said "I do."
Now, she's engaged to her longtime boyfriend Jeff and will see me again in September 2013 when she is a Bride!
We often get referrals from past Brides and Grooms, and typically it's their friends or co-workers - so this is the first time that we're going to be executing another wedding for the same family! It will be such a pleasure to see Leigh as a Bridesmaid, and now Erin as the Bride! I'm so excited to be able to work with these two gals again, and to help Erin & Jeff keep calm on their very special day.
Stay tuned next year for a teaser post about their wedding and then for a re-cap after they've said "I do."
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Erin as a Bridesmaid for her sister Leigh's wedding. Photo by Red Lotus Photography |
Sunday, September 30, 2012
That's a wrap!
Our 2012 wedding season has come to an end, and we are very pleased with how this year rolled out.
We executed a total of 9 weddings, with 3 being Full Wedding Planning services - so for this part-time business, we're giving ourselves a little pat on the back for a job well done.
All of the weddings we executed were memorable in their own way, and there were aspects and details from each that were very note-worthy. To share just a few, we'll start with Natalie, our June Bride who had a sign displayed for her guests that detailed the meanings behind her flower choices. We thought that this was very unique and gave purpose to her flowers rather then them just being simply decor.
Another neat thing I saw this year was the use of Scrabble letters to form the table names for Porsha & Will's big day. Or the fact that Mary-Anne, our August Bride had not just one cake, but three! She got on the trend wagon and had a cake trio for the day she married her hubby Anthony.
This year was our busiest to date, and we couldn't have been as successful without the help of my fabulous Assistants. Big hugs and thank you to Brittany, Melissa and Teresa. You guys rock!
Also thanks to some of the fabulous vendors we had the chance to meet and work with for the first time, and to those that we've worked with before and some more than once just this year. You guys help in making my job so enjoyable - thank you!
Stay tuned for blog posts in the next few weeks and months that will show Porsha's, Mary-Anne's, Margarita's and Brooke's wedding day in a recap with details and photos.
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Cakes by This Chick Makes Cakes |
Now, we're in planning mode for next year by meeting with Brides. If you're getting hitched, or know someone that is, feel free to give us a call. Even in the off season, we're still eager to keep talking about and executing weddings!!
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Tuesday, September 25, 2012
4 days to go!
4 days to go until Brooke & Richard are Husband and Wife!
Since last year I've been working with this awesome couple to help them plan their wedding. They have been wonderful to work with and I can't wait to bring all of our ideas, plans and hard work to life on Saturday!
Getting hitched in Paris, Ontario, this couple chose some of the finest vendors to work with, and I will definitely be posting pictures and details about their big day in the upcoming weeks.
If you want to stress less like Brooke & Richard, book us for your 2013 wedding. We're offering 30% off Day of Coordination services on all bookings prior to Nov 30/12.
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Thursday, September 20, 2012
Margarita & Sergio Sneak Peek!
On September 8th, I had the pleasure of working alongside a kick-ass couple, Margarita & Sergio.
Housed at the Old Mill Inn & Spa, this couple planned a party that was one to remember!
A Rock n' Roll theme was carried throughout every detail, from their concert ticket escort cards, to the guest book that was a play on a Rolling Stone magazine, even to a custom built Rock & Roll Wall of Fame - this couple thought of it all! Black, red and white were their colours and they had a personalized monogram designed by the Bride, who's a wicked designer. Here's a sneak peek of some photos I snapped....
Be on the look out for another blog (or two) with more photos and a video from the talented team at Green Autumn.
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