Guest Blogger: Rebecca Leary from Wedding Paper Divas
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At the very
least, wedding invitations include the actual invitation and the R.S.V.P. card.
While the wedding invitation
sets the tone for the celebration and provides the who, what, when, where and
why of the event; what exactly is the R.S.V.P. card? Sure, we know that it
means to respond to the sender with whether or not you plan on attending the
wedding – but is it perhaps something more?
First, let’s
take care of the basics. R.S.V.P. is French for Répondez S'il Vous
Plaît, which literally means:
respond, if you please. Or simply, please respond. Please note: it is redundant
to write: Please R.S.V.P., which would translate to: Please
respond, if you please. Now, is the R.S.V.P. card something more than a count
of attendance?
Well yes, and here’s how:
For the Couple
Whether your budget is $5,000 or $50,000, making sure it’s allocated properly and not wasted is a high priority for every couple and the R.S.V.P. card gives you a certain amount of budget control. It is with this card that you can keep a handle on wedding costs by simply filling in the number of guests and/or writing their name(s) on the M line. This way there are no surprise guests and if you want an evening without children, it politely lets guests know they need to make the proper arrangements. Also, if you are offering menu choices, you can offer guests the option to select a single entrée rather than providing dual entrees, letting you make sure the appropriate amount is prepared. Finally, if you are hosting multiple events, simply list all of them on the R.S.V.P. card and keep track of attendance all in one place.
Whether your budget is $5,000 or $50,000, making sure it’s allocated properly and not wasted is a high priority for every couple and the R.S.V.P. card gives you a certain amount of budget control. It is with this card that you can keep a handle on wedding costs by simply filling in the number of guests and/or writing their name(s) on the M line. This way there are no surprise guests and if you want an evening without children, it politely lets guests know they need to make the proper arrangements. Also, if you are offering menu choices, you can offer guests the option to select a single entrée rather than providing dual entrees, letting you make sure the appropriate amount is prepared. Finally, if you are hosting multiple events, simply list all of them on the R.S.V.P. card and keep track of attendance all in one place.
Beyond the
budget, the R.S.V.P. card helps build excitement for the day to come. As you
start getting them back in the mail, you’ll find that guests, both those
attending and those who cannot, often write a personal note of congratulations.
Compiled into a book, box or binder, these messages are yet another keepsake of
your special day.
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For Guests
It is an honor and a privilege to witness one of life’s most intimate moments between two people. As a guest, it is helpful to pay close attention to the subtle clues on the wedding invitation – location, attire, wording, etc. – and the R.S.V.P card, observing the same elements as noted above. Every last detail was carefully selected to let you, as a guest, know what to expect in accordance to the couples wishes – all in an effort to ensure everyone has a great time.
It is an honor and a privilege to witness one of life’s most intimate moments between two people. As a guest, it is helpful to pay close attention to the subtle clues on the wedding invitation – location, attire, wording, etc. – and the R.S.V.P card, observing the same elements as noted above. Every last detail was carefully selected to let you, as a guest, know what to expect in accordance to the couples wishes – all in an effort to ensure everyone has a great time.
After all, if it
was your wedding, you’d expect the same from your guests.
As a final note,
to account for those who forget to fill in their name on the R.S.V.P. card,
(yes it does happen) simply make a numbered list of the guests and write the
corresponding number on the R.S.V.P envelope by the stamp. It’s an
inconspicuous spot and will save you the trouble of trying to figure out who
sent it.
Author Bio: Rebecca Leary is a seasoned writer and
guest author who enjoys connecting people with thoughtful products, services
and ideas as they relate to the wedding and event planning industries.
